Monday, September 24

TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey

TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name:Tom
Birthday:11/22/1960
Birthplace:Victoria, Texas
Current Location:Houston, Texas
Eye Color:Green
Hair Color:Light Brown
Height:6'1"
Right Handed or Left Handed:Left
Your Heritage:Anglo
The Shoes You Wore Today:black & brown boat shoes
Your Weakness:Can't say "NO"
Your Fears:Saying "NO"
Your Perfect Pizza:All Meat - thin crust
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year:earn a huge bonus
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger:LOL
Thoughts First Waking Up:Cully!
Your Best Physical Feature:eyes
Your Bedtime:11:30-midnight
Your Most Missed Memory:coming out so late in life
Pepsi or Coke:neither - can't have bubbles......
MacDonalds or Burger King:BK
Single or Group Dates:single
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea:Republic of Tea
Chocolate or Vanilla:chocolate
Cappuccino or Coffee:Late'
Do you Smoke:no
Do you Swear:some
Do you Sing:some
Do you Shower Daily:YES
Have you Been in Love:YES
Do you want to go to College:already did
Do you want to get Married:already did
Do you belive in yourself:yes
Do you get Motion Sickness:yes
Do you think you are Attractive:yes
Are you a Health Freak:no
Do you get along with your Parents:the one still alive
Do you like Thunderstorms:yes
Do you play an Instrument:used to
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol:yes
In the past month have you Smoked:no
In the past month have you been on Drugs:no
In the past month have you gone on a Date:yes
In the past month have you gone to a Mall:yes
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos:no
In the past month have you eaten Sushi:no
In the past month have you been on Stage:no
In the past month have you been Dumped:yes
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping:no
In the past month have you Stolen Anything:no
Ever been Drunk:yes
Ever been called a Tease:yes
Ever been Beaten up:no
Ever Shoplifted:yes
How do you want to Die:quickly
What do you want to be when you Grow Up:in love
What country would you most like to Visit:GB
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color:green
Favourite Hair Color:blond
Short or Long Hair:short
Height:6'
Weight:HWP
Best Clothing Style:put together
Number of Drugs I have taken:1
Number of CDs I own:150
Number of Piercings:0
Number of Tattoos:0
Number of things in my Past I Regret:a lot

CREATE YOUR OWN! - or - GET PAID TO TAKE SURVEYS!

Tuesday, September 11

Before you judge Britney, watch this......

Police Officer Steals Marijuana

Police Officer bakes brownies then calls 911 and says "I think we are dying".

Monday, September 10

Friday, September 7

The 10 Rules of Life

1. You will receive a body. You may like it or hate it, but it's yours to keep for the entire period.
2. You will learn lessons. You are enrolled in a full-time informal school called, "life."
3. There are no mistakes, only lessons. Growth is a process of trial, error, and experimentation. The "failed" experiments are as much a part of the process as the experiments that ultimately "work."
4. Lessons are repeated until they are learned. A lesson will be presented to you in various forms until you have learned it. When you have learned it, you can go on to the next lesson.
5. Learning lessons does not end. There's no part of life that doesn't contain its lessons. If you're alive, that means there are still lessons to be learned.
6. "There" is no better a place than "here." When your "there" has become a "here", you will simply obtain another "there" that will again look better than "here."
7. Other people are merely mirrors of you. You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it reflects to you something you love or hate about yourself.
8. What you make of your life is up to you. You have all the tools and resources you need. What you do with them is up to you. The choice is yours.
9. Your answers lie within you. The answers to life's questions lie within you. All you need to do is look, listen, and trust.
10. You will forget all this.

Wednesday, September 5

A Heterosexual Questionnaire


  1. What do you think caused your heterosexuality?

  2. When and how did you first decide you were heterosexual?

  3. Is it possible that heterosexuality is a phase that you will grow out of?

  4. Is it possible that you are heterosexual because you fear the same sex?

  5. If you have never slept with someone of the same sex, how do you know you wouldn't prefer that? Is it possible you merely need a good gay experience?

  6. To whom have you disclosed your heterosexuality? How did they react?

  7. Heterosexuality isn't offensive as long as you leave others alone. Why, however, do so many heterosexuals try to seduce others into their orientation?

  8. Most child molesters are heterosexual. Do you consider it safe to expose your children to heterosexuals? Heterosexual teachers particularly?

  9. Why are heterosexuals so blatant, always making a spectacle of their heterosexuality? Why can't they just be who they are and not flaunt their sexuality by kissing in public, wearing wedding rings, etc.?

  10. How can you have a truly satisfying relationship with someone of the opposite sex, given the obvious physical and emotional differences?

  11. Heterosexual marriage has total societal support, yet over half of all heterosexuals who marry this year will divorce. Why are their so few successful heterosexual relationships?

  12. Given the problems heterosexuals face, would you want your children to be heterosexual? would you consider aversion therapy to try to change them?


...from "Becoming Visible: a Reader in Gay and Lesbian History for High School and College Students," 1994, ed. by Kevin Jennings,
Alyson Publications, Inc., Los Angeles, CA 90078

© Copyright 1999 Montrose Counseling Center, Inc. and Texas Commission on
Alcohol and Drug Abuse.

Tuesday, September 4

You don't have to be gay to be gay on the inside.

You don't have to be gay to be gay on the inside. Anyone can do it! It just requires three things:
(1) consider that you might be different from the way people think you are;
(2) consider that you might be different from the way you think you are supposed to be;
(3) be willing to accept that other people may disapprove of your choices, and realize that their approval doesn't matter all that much anyway.

Get past those things, and you can start thinking about what you really need to be in order to be your true self.